In this African tribe when someone is disruptive or disrespectful they are placed inside a circle of tribe members where for two days straight they are reminded of all the good they have done because they believe despite their flaws and mistakes people are genuinely good and unethical behavior is simply a cry for help and so they unite to reconnect him to his good nature. I think this reinforcement of love and reassurance is just awesome ~Luce Cannon
You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens.
"My father was very simple, but everyone respected him. The former president of India came to his funeral, even though we weren’t a wealthy or powerful family. Everyone saw my father as a peacemaker. Whenever there was a fight, he’d put himself in the middle and beg for it to stop. Once there were two groups of men fighting, and my father ran over to break up the fight. Someone threw a stone and it accidentally hit my father in the head. He was so respected, that as soon as the stone hit him, everyone went calm."